Benny Blanco Says Wedding With Selena Gomez “Will Be Chill

Hitmaker opens up about love, OCD, and early days with Billie Eilish on Therapuss podcast

Record producer and songwriter Benny Blanco got candid in a new episode of Jake Shane’s viral podcast Therapuss, sharing personal stories about his relationship with Selena Gomez, his mental health journey, and his early work with Billie Eilish.

The episode is now streaming on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.

Benny Blanco on Life With Selena Gomez

“We’ve Been in Bed Just Watching Stuff”

Blanco, who proposed to Gomez in late 2024, revealed that formal wedding planning hasn’t started yet. “Honestly, I really want to take a little break. I’ve been working so much,” he said. “I just want to lay in bed and forget what day it is.”

He added that Gomez makes downtime feel magical. “She makes me want to hang out and cuddle, just watch things, eat food, and have the best time ever.”

Summer Wedding Plans? Maybe

While nothing is set in stone yet, Blanco hinted that they might start mapping out their big day this summer. When podcast host Jake Shane joked, “That wedding is going to be lit,” Blanco laughed and replied, “It’ll be chill.”

Getting Real About Mental Health

Blanco’s Journey With OCD

The conversation also touched on Blanco’s lifelong struggle with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). He recalled the intrusive thoughts he had as a child:

“When I was a kid, I had to go ‘mmph’ or I thought my parents would die.”

Today, he still deals with compulsions—like touching his face or fake coughing—but has learned to manage them. “I got rid of all the things that are really annoying to another person,” he said, while also joking, “I still make sure everything in my shower is facing forward. But that’s insane regardless of OCD.”

A Look Back: Billie Eilish & ‘Bad Guy’

Blanco surprised fans with a fun music connection: Disney’s Wizards of Waverly Place theme song—yes, the show that made Selena Gomez famous—partly inspired Billie Eilish’s breakout hit “Bad Guy.”

“I know the [Wizards] theme song because it inspired ‘Bad Guy,’” he said. “I worked with Billie when she was legit like 14.”

He recalled being introduced to Billie and her brother FINNEAS before they had ever performed live. “They didn’t need my help at all,” he laughed. “They always do everything just the two of them—and it’s f—ing incredible.”

Therapuss Continues to Attract Big Names

Blanco joins a growing list of major artists who’ve appeared on Therapuss, including Tate McRae, Renee Rapp, Charli XCX, Joe Jonas, and Lorde. The podcast has quickly become a go-to space for stars to speak vulnerably and unscripted.

FAQ

Is Benny Blanco really engaged to Selena Gomez?

Yes, Benny Blanco proposed to Selena Gomez in late 2024, and the two are now engaged.

Have they started planning their wedding?

Not officially. Blanco said they hope to begin planning this summer but want to take things slow.

What did Blanco say about his OCD?

He opened up about his childhood rituals and current compulsions but emphasized that he’s learned to manage them—especially in relationships.

How is Billie Eilish connected to Wizards of Waverly Place?

Blanco said the Wizards theme song inspired elements of Billie Eilish’s hit “Bad Guy,” which he worked on during her early career.